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Karena Wanita Ingin Dimengerti / Because Women Want to be Understood

on March 10, 2015

Versi Bahasa Indonesia:

KARENA WANITA INGIN DIMENGERTI

Saat istri marah, ia belum tentu kesal. Ia hanya butuh pengertian.
Saat istri menangis, ia belum tentu bersedih. Ia hanya butuh pelukan.
Saat istri cemberut, ia belum tentu kecewa. Ia hanya butuh perhatian.
Saat istri cemburu, ia belum tentu iri. Ia hanya butuh pujian.
Saat istri menolak, ia belum tentu tak mau. Ia hanya butuh rayuan dan bujukan.
Saat istri lelah, ia belum tentu merasa capek. Ia hanya butuh diajak jalan-jalan.
Saat istri sakit hati, ia belum tentu terluka. Ia hanya butuh belaian.

Namun…
Saat istri tersenyum, ia belum tentu setuju. Bisa jadi ia sedang berusaha mengerti.
Saat istri tertawa, ia belum tentu bahagia. Bisa jadi ia sedang berusaha membahagiakan suaminya.
Saat diberi hadiah, ia belum tentu senang. Bisa jadi ia sedang berusaha untuk menghargai.
Saat istri terlihat tegar, ia belum tentu kuat. Bisa jadi ia sedang mencoba untuk bertahan menghadapi ujian.
Saat istri mengerjakan perintah suami, belum tentu sesuai keinginannya. Bisa jadi ia sedang berusaha untuk menjadi istri yang taat.

Istri adalah hadiah dari Allah.
Allah menyuruh kamu menjaganya.
Tapi sebaliknya, dia yang menjaga kamu.

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Wahai para suami atau calon istri,
Selami lebih dalam psikologi pasanganmu.
Karena bisa jadi ada makna di balik setiap kata dan ekspresinya.
Ini bukan masalah tidak adanya ketulusan dan keikhlasan.
Namun belajarlah memahami tabiat seorang wanita yang rela mengorbankan sisa usianya bersamamu.
Selalu ada pengorbanan dalam membangun cinta.
Namun inshaa Allah berakhir bahagia hingga ke surga.

Semoga kita bisa menjadi pasangan yang saling memahami kekurangan dan kelebihan pasangan kita. Aamiin.

Sumber: Facebook Fanpage “Teladan Rasul”.

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English Version:

BECAUSE WOMEN WANT TO BE UNDERSTOOD

When a wife is angry, she is not necessarily pissed off. She only needs understanding.
When a wife cries, she is not necessarily sad. She just needs a hug.
When a wife is sullen, she is not necessarily disappointed. She just needs attention.
When a wife is jealous, she is not necessarily envy. She only needs a compliment.
When a wife refuses, doesn’t always mean she doesn’t want. She just needs sweet talk and seduction.
When a wife is weary, doesn’t always mean she feels tired. She only needs to be taken for a walk.
When a wife is resentful, she is not necessarily hurt. She only needs caresses.

However…
When she smiles, doesn’t always mean she agrees. It could be that she is trying to understand.
When she laughs, she is not necessarily happy. It could be that she is trying to beatify her husband.
When she gets a gift, she is not necessarily happy. It could be that she is trying to appreciate it.
When she looks tough, she is not necessarily strong. It could be that she is trying to survive the test.
When she does her husband’s order, it’s not necessarily as her wish. It could be that she is trying to be obedient wife.

A wife is a gift from God.
God tells you to take care of her.
But on the contrary, she is the one who takes care of you.

O the husbands or the wives-to-be,
Dive deeper into the psychology of your mate.
Because there could be a meaning behind every word and expression.
It’s not a matter of lack of sincerity and genuineness.
But learn to understand the nature of your woman who is willing to sacrifice the rest of her age with you.
There is always a sacrifice in building love.
But with God’s permit, it will bring to a happy ending to the heaven.

Hopefully we can be a partner who understands the weaknesses and strengths of our partner. Amen.

Source: Facebook Fanpage “Teladan Rasul” (The Example of the Apostle)
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