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15 Ways To Keep A Relationship Working

on September 17, 2014

15 Ways To Keep A Relationship Working:

1. Love each other.
Obviously, without love, why should be in a relationship?
If you don’t love your partner anymore, just tell them.

2. Don’t lie.
“Men and women lie with about the same frequency, but they lie for different reasons. Men lie to make themselves look better in the eyes of others, while women tend to lie to spare feelings and make other people feel better.” – Discovery Channel

3. Keep communication open.
These are 5 communication tips: be honest and share your feelings, admire your partner’s strengths – and overlook the little things, make thoughtful gestures, learn to listen, and say “I love you” often.

4. Stay sweet.
Doesn’t mean you have to be so much romantic by forcing yourself to buy bouquets of flowers everyday and make poems, etc. Do what you can do. Say what’s on your mind.
My exs were not typical of romantic guys but they were sweet, especially the last one. 🙂

5. When you get hurt just forgive and forget.
Any fool knows men and women think differently at times, but the biggest difference is this. Men forget, but never forgive; women forgive, but never forget.” – Robert Jordan.
Blame keeps wound open. Only forgiveness heals.
If you told someone, “I have already forgiven you.”, but you still keep on blaming them, it means you actually haven’t.

6. Never talk about break-ups.
Not always “I want to break up”, “Let’s break up”, etc which contains the “break up” words. But also other words as, “We are over”, “Go away from my life”, “Go back to your parents”, “I don’t wanna see you anymore”, etc.

7. Never say it’s okay even when it’s not.
The problem with women is they always say “I’m fine” no matter they are actually fine or not.

8. Forget about “pride”.
Someone who doesn’t wanna swallow their pride, throw them away to the sea. -_-
Sometimes you have to shut up, swallow your pride, and accept that you’re wrong, it’s called growing up.
If your pride is bigger than your heart and your ego is bigger than your head, grow up or you will be alone for life!
But those who have high pride usually don’t realize their high pride.

9. If you say sorry mean it.
Sorry seems to be the hardest word.

10. Don’t compare your past with your present.
Everybody changes. Worse or better.

11. Don’t talk about your stupid exs.
And don’t talk with your exs if your current partner is jealous.

12. Give and take process.
None is instant except Indonesian instant noodles.

13. Beware of his/her feelings.
Think twice before telling or doing something to your partner.

14. When you had a fight, don’t let the day pass.
I can’t be angry for more than a day. I can even easily laugh when I’m angry just by hearing a joke.

15. Don’t be the perfect one, be the right one.
Nobody is perfect. Since I’m nobody, so I’m perfect. LOL 😛


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